When someone you love is living with a serious illness, it’s easy to put your own needs last. There are appointments to keep, medications to track, routines to manage, and so many emotions to hold all at once. In the middle of all this, parents and caregivers often tell us they feel guilty if they rest or admit they’re struggling. They believe they have to be endlessly strong. But nobody can carry this much without also offering kindness to themselves. Self-compassion isn’t weakness, and it isn’t selfish. It’s a way of saying, “I matter too,” even when life feels heavy….